I'm not sure how to explain this, but I'm sure my not complaining is making a difference to my relationships. Somebody I am close to seems to me to be criticising me a lot, but I am aware that they don't mean it to 'come out like that.' I have been trying for a long time now to accept the way they speak in a neutral way, as simply giving information rather than as criticism.
As I continue my complaint free journey I am finding that I am much more able to tell the difference between a comment given as a complaint / criticism and something which is just meant as information or advice. Also whatever I hear, I find it easier to accept it positively / with gratitude and without complaining or reacting negatively.
I think I am also seeing the huge amount that I actually do complain (all be it as a low level most of the time) and I think this changes my attitude towards others - perhaps I'm being a bit more humble?
This is making a huge difference. Apparently I am easier to live with!
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